I settle on, “Dear Jesus.” “Dear Jesus, just, please, Jesus, let us fight for Your name.” Then, “O Lord,” but I worry that this doesn’t sound intimate enough. I know what it means to be a “brother,” which is to say that I know what it means to be a soldier in the army of God. I have wrestled with them and showered with them and listened to their stories: I know which man resents his father’s fortune and which man succumbed to the flesh of a woman not once but twice and which man dances so well he is afraid of being taken for a fag.
I have been numbered among them and have been given a part in their ministry. It is April 2002, and I have lived with these men for weeks now, not as a Christian-a term they deride as too narrow for the world they are building in Christ’s honor-but as a “believer.” I have shared the brothers’ meals and their work and their games. And they pray, assembled at the dining table or on their lawn or in the hallway or in the bunk room or on the basketball court, each man’s head bowed in humility and swollen with pride (secretly, he thinks) at being counted among such a fine corps for Christ, among men to whom he will open his heart and whom he will remember when he returns to the world not born-again but remade, no longer an individual but part of the Lord’s revolution, his will transformed into a weapon for what the young men call “spiritual war.” The men tend every tulip in the cul-de-sac, trim every magnolia, seal every driveway smooth and black as boot leather. At the end of a tree-lined cul-de-sac, quiet but for the buzz of lawn mowers and kids playing foxes-and-hounds in the park across the road, Ivanwald sits as one house among many, clustered together like mushrooms, all devoted, like these men, to the service of Jesus Christ.
The house is a handsome, gray, two-story colonial that smells of new carpet and Pine-Sol and aftershave the men who live there call it Ivanwald.
This is how they pray: a dozen clear-eyed, smooth-skinned “brothers” gathered together in a huddle, arms crossing arms over shoulders like the weave of a cable, leaning in on one another and swaying like the long grass up the hill from the house they share. And a man’s foes shall be they of his own household.